Sex & Relationship

30 Things I Have Learned to Start Loving Myself

  1. I know when to speak up for myself instead of biting my own tongue.
  2. I am brave to ask for what I want and not afraid of saying No for what I do not want.
  3. I defend myself and my ideas when others belittle me.
  4. I stop doubting and start believing myself and I know I am capable of achieving what I desire.
  5. I start closing old doors that led me nowhere and go on a venture in finding new possibilities.
  6. I actively hit the gym to take care of my own health and not for the sake of pleasing others.
  7. I start to be kinder to myself and say a lot more supportive words.
  8. I am grateful and appreciative of the things around me.
  9. I started filtering my inner circle and detached myself from negative bitches and people who just do not care about me.
  10. I put in more time in doing the things I am passionate about.
  11. I hone my talents and strength, and external motivations are not needed to keep me going.
  12. I spend more time with the people I loved.
  13. I stop saying “you are not good enough”.
  14. I smile a lot more and cry lesser.
  15. I enjoyed looking at myself in the mirror and accepted the flaws on my body.
  16. I am not afraid to tell the truth and be true to the people around me.
  17. I get the hell out of a toxic relationship and stop looking back.
  18. I stop degrading myself to chase after bitches, or love or not ever.
  19. I am calmer and the little things do not make me mad anymore.
  20. I respect myself and can’t tolerate people who do not.
  21. I stop comparing myself to others and become happy for other people.
  22. I am always looking forward to the very next day.
  23. I know when I need to put myself as first priority.
  24. I understand that rejection are part of life.
  25. I pursue my plans and interests without waiting for someone to join me.
  26. I am keen to learn more and to value add myself to become the best version of me.
  27. I believe that I deserve phenomenal love and I know I will find it.
  28. I am not afraid to say sorry and to admit my own wrongdoings.
  29. I forgive my own mistakes and learn from them.
  30. I turned my negative self-talk to positive affirmation.

Meet Zee, a passionate advocate for helping young women heal and break free from toxic relationships.